Why Hope is a Skill (Not a Feeling)
Hope can be deliberately cultivated. Here is the research on how, and three exercises to start tonight.
By Sasha Renfield, MA
Hope is built, not found
Decades of research from C.R. Snyder and others shows hope is composed of two parts:
pathways
(the belief that there are routes forward) and
agency
(the belief you can move along them).
Three small practices
The 'one good thing' note.
Each night, write one specific moment from the day that mattered.
The 'next small step' question.
Whenever you feel stuck, ask: 'what is one 5-minute thing I could do?'
Borrowed hope.
When you can't feel hope for yourself, borrow it from someone who feels it for you.
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