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Why Hope is a Skill (Not a Feeling)

Hope can be deliberately cultivated. Here is the research on how, and three exercises to start tonight.

By Sasha Renfield, MA

Why Hope is a Skill (Not a Feeling)

Hope is built, not found

Decades of research from C.R. Snyder and others shows hope is composed of two parts:

pathways

(the belief that there are routes forward) and

agency

(the belief you can move along them).

Three small practices

The 'one good thing' note.

Each night, write one specific moment from the day that mattered.

The 'next small step' question.

Whenever you feel stuck, ask: 'what is one 5-minute thing I could do?'

Borrowed hope.

When you can't feel hope for yourself, borrow it from someone who feels it for you.

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